However, after receiving so many questions from all over the place: Facebook, SMS, phone calls, emails, etc. I decided to post this up for all to read.

Monday 14th May 2012: We consulted the second child chiropractor. As mentioned in my “Child Chiropractor” post, we purely wanted to seek a second opinion, NOT that there was anything wrong with the first child chiropractor cum Chinese physician.

We swung from a simple down-to-earth Chinese Medical Clinic to a high end (in my view) professional, multi-branch-ed English Medical Clinic.

We swung from a consultation that cost $48 (with medication + massage) to a consultation that cost $100 WITHOUT anything else.

Even after presenting the 50% discount voucher and with a pre-arranged X-ray scheduled on Tuesday 15th May 2012, the total cost came up to be $214.00!

*jaws dropped*

So what did this second Child Chiropractor said about Keatkeat?

I only have one word to summarise the 15mins consultation :  Disheartening.

He did not just say it, he PROVED it.

Yes, we get to feel it with our own hands (with the doctor assistance)  and we saw it with our own eyes.

Let me list down Keatkeat’s issues: ~

1. His right ear is higher than his left. Meaning his head is tilted towards the left side.
2. His right shoulder is lower than his left. Thus there is always a strain on his neck because it is always in a flip-side-C position.
3. His spine is in a slight S-Shape. The X-ray will show how ‘serious‘ the S-shape is and to what degree.
4. His left pelvic bone is rotated forward, while his right pelvic bone is rotated backward. As a result, he has a shorter right leg, which will cause him to limp.

My first born came to this world with a beautifully perfect spine. So what happened???

This second Child Chiropractor’s verdict was, “Its likely Scoliosis.” Then he turned towards us and asked, “Anyone in the family have Scoliosis?”

Allan stepped forward and said, “I have.”

I went “HUH??!!!”

I know that Allan has a ‘MISSING PIECE’ in his lower spine but I did not know that his spine was S-Shaped!

Allan continued, “I was diagnosed with this when I was in Primary School, but soon after, the Health Promotion Board discharged me.”

With those words coming out from the patient’s father’s mouth, the doctor affirmed that it IS Scoliosis. He said that when someone in the family has Scoliosis, it increases the chance of the next generation to have Scoliosis by 30%.

However, he also said that it usually happens to female and pretty rare to happen to children of Keatkeat’s age, normally symptoms start to appear on older children.

The Child Chiropractor also mentioned that based on ‘his touch’, Keatkeat’s condition does not seem serious, however, because he is still growing, there is no guarantee that it would not get worse.

He talked about how scoliosis in children could worsen suddenly during puberty stage. It is an illness that needs long term close monitoring, at least until the age when he stops growing, 23 years old.

*faint*

He is only 8 years old now! That would be 15 years of close monitoring and endless reminders (or nagging) of, “Sit properly”, “Walk Upright”, “Put a Pillow Behind your back to support it”.

*My heart sank*

I walked out of the clinic with the ‘heavy’ receipt and a heavy heart….

Tuesday 15th May 2012: We went for the X-Ray at Camden Medical Centre. We were told that we could not go to our preferred X-Ray centres, we MUST go to this one. *sigh*

Watching him in the room from the see-through glass suddenly made me realised how big and matured my boy has become. The doctor told him to stay still and not move, he did as told. He dare not even move his lips, which he usually would when he is nervous! *giggle*

Anyway, my Keatkeat had fun in the X-Ray room. He said with his cartoon voice, “It was so Cool! The X-Ray machine can go up and down by itself!” when he came out.

After he had changed out of his X-ray shirt, we saw the result on the screen. I saw that his spine is indeed in a slight S-Shape. But all that my cheeky boy looked at was his ‘little elephant’, which was captured in the X-ray too. *laugh*

Tomorrow, 17th May 2012, we will be going back to the Child Chiropractor to find out what he has deduced from the X-Ray.

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Scoliosis In Children

However, this year, we did not have a Mother’s Day dinner. We had a Mother’s Day MEGA DINNER FEAST! *faint*

At the end of it all, I looked like I was 4-5 months pregnant!!! *laugh*

Right after those plates and bowls were cleared.
THESE spiky green durians were placed on the table IMMEDIATELY!

THE ONLY CHILD, out of the six kids, who is interested in durian. Well, he DOES live up to his nickname ‘Fruit King’! *laugh*

Allan asked for a 15mins break before the NEXT FOOD comes onto the dining table. Well, everyone definitely need a small break from all the biting and chewing. We need time to digest!!! *laugh*

After 15mins was gone, oh man! Everyone was still very full, but we must have the cake cutting ceremony no matter what…..

This year, my 2nd SIL, with the help of her friend’s discount card, bought the famous Guanaja from Rive Gauche.

Ok, as mentioned in my previous post, the first few hours of Mother’s Day was indeed a happy one for me because of the my nieces’ sudden urge for a sleepover.

My wish of feeling like a Mother of 4 came true. Preparing 4 kids for bedtime was fun, especially when its my dream combination of two boys and two girls. *grin*

Still, I was pleasantly surprised and moved by the greeting from my eldest niece (who could not make it yesterday), when she arrived at my in-law’s place after us.

Chirpily, she came infront of me, squat down and called sweetly, “Omma!”
*smile*
Read this post to find out why she calls me that: “Me? Omma?”

Lovely gift from her, isn’t?

And when we went down to the playground for an hour of playtime, before the MEGA DINNER FEAST was served, my two elder nieces created a mini Mother’s Day bouquet for me.

Aaawwww…. so sweet!
*heart melted*

How was your 2012 Mother’s Day celebration? I had a blast! I hope you did too.

HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!

MOTHER’S DAY 2012

Not my boys.

But for my two nieces! Yeah! *clap clap clap*

My MIL wanted to check out our temporary home and so they came in the afternoon. My nieces loved the place so much, they wanted to spend the night over here!

MIL kept finding excuses NOT to grant them their first sleepover, “Didn’t bring clothes, what are you going to wear?” “No toothbrush, how?” “Not enough pillows, what are you going to sleep on?”

Guess what?

I HAVE ALL THE ANSWERS TO THOSE!!!

*laugh*

But my words were still not powerful enough to make the old lady nod her head. *pout*

It took lots of persuasion from THIS PERSON before my MIL and BIL said “YES” to my nieces first sleepover.

Guess who was the one who did all the persuasion and negotiation successfully?

It was KEATKEAT!!! *laugh*

He was so good with coming up with all the reasoning and assuring words, before Binbin joined in to give the final push. *laugh* It was so funny to watch.

Having 4 children, 2 boys and 2 girls, have ALWAYS been my wish. But ever since I passed my 32nd birthday, I decided to close the production line and am happy with just two boys.

Right after dinner, we went shopping, came home and bathed. But feeling great to be a ‘mother of 4′, we decided to bring them out for a ‘supper adventure’ later. Whoo-hoo!

Hey! Exams are officially over for the 4 of them after yesterday, what better way to celebrate than making this sleepover super fun?!! *clap clap clap*

In one of the previous post last week, I mentioned that Keatkeat’s health took a turn for the worse. Here’s why.

• First was cough. Night time is the worse. Cough till vomit.
• Then runny nose ran in to make things more complicated.
• Persistent Tummy ache did not want to miss the party either.
• Aggravated his back pain.
• Insomnia hit eventually.
• Headache followed.

Without proper rest, which human can truly recover?

His back pain became so severe, he could not sit for long and had to keep fidgeting in class (according to him). Well, its the same when he is at home.

We had to ‘cure‘ his insomnia first, or else there is no way he could be well enough to go for the mid-year examination. He has already taken ‘enough‘ MCs, in my opinion, to miss out on the tips the teachers had been giving for the coming papers.

Back Pain was the killer to his beauty sleep. Keatkeat had been complaining about the discomfort on his lower back for about a year now, but it was occasional and its usually complained in this way, “Mummy, my back very uncomfortable.”

But NEVER once did he say ‘Pain’.

This was the first time, he mentioned the word ‘PAIN’ and that worries me terribly because till now, I am still wondering if Allan’s ‘missing piece‘ on his lower spine would be hereditary.

So with that said, I need verification.

We started looking for Child Chiropractor.

Law of Attraction does work in our lives! When we were buying a floor mat, to put under our roller chairs, to protect the floor in our temporary home, the Chiropractor Clinic was right beside the shop! *grin*

We did hesitate a little because of the clinic’s appearance.

We wonder about the cost.
We wonder if the Chiropractor treats children.
We wonder about how many times Keatkeat needs to go through it before the pain will go away for good.
Hundreds of wondering thoughts filled our minds.

……..

Then I decided to stop all the ‘What If‘ and pushed the door. Ring Ring Ring, the wind chime hung on the door rang.

“Come In” a voice spoke. But we saw no one!!!

So eerie! *laugh*

Not a single soul at the reception area but after the voice repeated “Come In”, we realised it came from a small window from the consultation room.

We pushed another door and there she sat with her long-sighted glasses and hair neatly tied up. Hung on the wall behind her was 4 big Chinese words “Yi-Shu-Gao-Ming” (superior medical skills)

Yes, she is from China and to me, when it comes to ‘Tui-Na’ (manipulative therapy), I think they are the best.

My uncle has been a Chinese Physician for more than 40 years now. However, he no longer prescribe liquid medicine nor tablet medication any more. So those 3 bowls of water, boiled with the herbs, to one bowl of medication, Keatkeat has problem taking even one sip.

So I had no choice but to seek help else where.

Ok, back to this Female Chinese Child Chiropractor cum Physician. She started her diagnosis and every word that she said hit bull’s eye!

• “He has been having wind in his stomach and weak gastric for a very long time
• He does not eat much as a result
• So he has problem concentrating for long periods of time
  
• He also have headache
• He could not sleep well at night because of the discomfort in his stomach
• And that discomfort is causing his back to hurt
• If he carries on this way, it will affect his growth, which also explains why he is almost the same build as his younger brother.”

I was literally nodding all the way!!!

Then a sentence came out of her mouth and made my heart skipped a beat:

“He is suffering in this body.”

*silence*

I felt like crying because all these while I felt that Keatkeat is just being a complain-some and negative boy whenever he complains about discomfort in his body.

You see, he complains only when he is asked to do something that he does not fancy. Yet, he can stay infront of the computer for a full 30mins and not a single word of complain would come out of his mouth.

So I assumed that it was just his way of showing lack of interest in whatever that he does not like and tries to find excuses to leave.

Now that THAT SENTENCE came out from the doctor’s mouth, I have a brand new way of looking at my first born. His endurance level is really high!

The female physician said that she needs to solve Keatkeat’s tummy issues first. So long as that is not solved, other problems will continue.

Then she moved on to look at Keatkeat’s spine.

OMG!!!

Keatkeat’s SPINE is curved towards the lower part!!!!

Keatkeat was born with a perfectly normal spine.

What happened???!!!

Then my guess was proven correct when the child chiropractor said, “He has bad posture most of the time, right? And that is because of the discomfort in his tummy. He does not like to straighten his body because it stretches it and makes it painful.”

She paused for a few seconds and said another sentence which brought tears to the corners of my eyes, “This little boy is going through a lot of pain.”

*heartache*

Then the female child chiropractor started to massage for Keatkeat. Twisting and turning his body in awkward positions, and she was surprised that Keatkeat was so cooperative. She kept praising him, “This child is so obedient.”

I wanted to take photos and videos, but it was not allowed. So the only photo I could take was the entrance of the clinic.

We went there twice already.
She prescribed medicine for Keatkeat’s tummy discomfort only.

Keatkeat’s tummy has improved after taking her medication.
However habits die hard and BAD habits die harder!
He still does not sit with a back support to support his spine.
He still does not walk upright.
He still does not land his feet on his heel when he walks.

*sigh*

We had to keep reminding/nagging him to do so.
Then he would do it, for a few minutes, before he goes back to his old self again.

*double sigh*

I am comfortable with this child chiropractor, however something in me kept bugging me to seek a second opinion. Thus before our third appointment with this female child chiropractor, I will be going to another child chiropractor.

Appointment has been confirmed.
It will be this coming Monday, 14th May 2012.

Let’s see if there is going to be any difference in the diagnosis.
*fingers crossed*

Child Chiropractor

How often do we focus on their flaws instead of their awes?

How often do we remember their little mistakes and forget their moments of serendipity?

This mother tackled all the above with one simple message on a video.

She touched my heart so deeply, I see no reason why I should not share on my blog to keep me inspired in my parenting journey.

A mother of a blind baby boy inspiring millions, I hope she inspires you too….

Mother’s Inspiring Video About Her Blind Baby Boy :~

Here’s a recap of her simple message that is so POWERFUL to all Mothers…… and Fathers too.

“When I was 15 I met Chris and we fell in love.
Chris + I got married when I was 21.
When I was 23, we found out that we were going to have a baby.
We were SO excited!!!
At my 18 week ultrasound, we found out we were having a BOY!!
We were even MORE excited!!
We named him Christian :)

A week later, we got a phone call. Something was wrong with Christian.
We were crushed.
As Christian grew, doctors became more and more unsure.
What was wrong?
Would he live?
Would he be mentally impaired?

On February 18th, 2011
Chris and I went to Vanderbilt to deliver Christian.
We didn’t know if we would come home with Christian or not.

At 9:32am
Christian came into the world…
Screaming!

He was ALIVE!!!

But it wasn’t that simple…
Christian’s condition was MUCH worse than we originally thought.

He was born with a Tessier cleft lip + palate.
He couldn’t even close his mouth.
His condition is only 1 of 50 in the entire world.

But it got worse…
Christian’s eyes were also clefted.
They just didn’t form.
They just weren’t there.

Our baby boy was blind.
We were heartbroken.

We didn’t know what to do,
or how to raise a child who couldn’t see.

Christian had surgery at 4 days old,
and stayed in the NICU for 4 weeks.

When we brought him home from the hospital,
things were hard.
Anytime we took Christian out in public…
People would stare…
and whisper behind my back “Look at that baby”
Kids would ask their mom what was wrong with “that baby.”

I couldn’t go anywhere without someone doing something to point out Christian.

Some people would even ask me “What’s wrong with your kid?”
One girl even told me I was a horrible person for not aborting Christian in utero.

I was miserable :(

But as Christian got older,
he started laughing and playing.
And when people would stare,
Christian would start giggling…
And they would giggle too.

People started finding me on Facebook…
or recognizing Christian from hearing about him.
And so we made a TON of new friends.

People started telling me how Christian inspired them.
And how beautiful he is.
And things got a little easier.

And Christian is growing and Healthy!!
And anyone who meets Christian falls in love with him pretty quickly.
Those judgmental glances + whispers don’t really bother me anymore.
Because I know Christian is beautiful…
Inside + Out

I also know that I did the right thing by not aborting Christian.
He is the love of my life!
And he is a Miracle!”

A Mother of a Blind Baby Boy Inspiring Millions