All About Your Child

Stickers were contributed by Keatkeat’s school teacher. He was so excited about the stickers and kept telling me all the good habits that we must have when we go to the toliet. He wanted to make sure that ‘everyone’ remembers so he asked if he could stick them in our toliet.

My reply, “Why Not?” He told me that he is afraid he may not stick them well, so he requested me to do it and that I must do a good job….

Well, he was the instructor, I just do the sticking…so we stick here…

and here…

AND HERE!

“Thank you, mummy.” Keatkeat said with a smile full of pride as he looks at the stickers.

Every now and then, he would point to the pictures and say, “remember ah….do not…..”

This is really good when it comes to building good habits in children. Get them stickers, get them to participate in the sticking process, it does get into their heads.

Mmmm…maybe I should start finding stickers on “SIT 3 meters away from the TV”!

Kids are the best models for “monkey see, monkey do.”

Parents are children’s idol. Your child loves you, adores you, respect and may even fear you, all jumbled up…Often, they just copy what you do, how you do it, what you say, how you say it, without really thinking why.

To them, since you are their idol, whatever you do MUST be right, or cool, or safe, or fun…They just want to be like you. Unknowingly, even after they grew up, they still behave the same way, more or less, as you.

Whenever I see my boys doing things the way I do, or even speaking in my style; I can’t help but rememeber the story told by T. Harv Eker in his book, The Secrets of The Millionaire Mind….

“A woman who prepares a ham for dinner by cutting off both ends. Her bewildered husband asks why she cuts off the ends. She replies, “That’s how my mom cooked it.”

Well, it just so happened that her mom was coming for dinner that night. So they asked her why she cut off the ends of the ham. Mom replies, “That’s how my mom cooked it.”

So they decided to call Grandma on the phone and ask why she cut off the ends of the ham. Her answer? “Because my pan was too small!”

See? Kids just copy what they see. So please, dear parents all over the world, including myself, watch how you behave, what you say in front of your kids. They are so observant and learn so fast. Before you know it, your style is rooted in them.

Your children will become what you are; so be what you want them to be.
~David Bly