My Worries…Like None Other
Child, Parenting, School-study December 29th, 2009This coming Monday, ((OMG! Did I just said ‘This coming Monday’?!?!)) Keatkeat is going to the Big School, for a length of time which is DOUBLE of what he spent in Kindergarten. During the Primary One Orientation, the principal mentioned some of the most common fears of parents of Primary 1 students:-
- Fear that their children will get lost in the BIG compound.
- Fear that their children do not know how to buy food for themselves.
- Fear that their children will not fit into the new environment and start crying.
- Fear that their children will not get ‘enough’ attention from the teachers, now that the class is bigger.
- Fear that their children do not know where the toilet is.
My fears? My worries, are NONE of the above.
Because of Keatkeat’s motor skills, I fear he might drop the plate of food while trying to struggle to hold the money, wallet, spoon, fork or chopsticks. So I have been training him to get the sequence right.
Pay first – Take Change (if any) – Check if Change is correct – Put Change into the wallet – Put wallet into his pocket – Take utensils (spoon/fork/chopsticks) with left hand – Hold plate/bowl of food with right hand.
**I intend to give me more loose change so that he can give the exact amount.
During training, I tried to ‘add a little weight’ by putting tiny balls of paper. He still drops something, somehow. I cannot imagine if he is holding a bowl of macaroni soup!!! *heart sank*
So I told him, worse come to worst, take the bowl/plate of food to the table first, get his *buddy to look after, while he goes back to take the utensils. (*an older student will be assigned to every Primary One kid during the first week or two at every recess.)
NEXT…
I am worried about his nose. As usual. All my ‘old-time’ readers know the battle I had with his nose for 7 months. The battle needed 3 posts to FULLY expressed how much ‘struggles‘ Keatkeat and I had gone through.
It took 7 months – the Beginning
It took 7 months – the Progress
It took 7 months – the Finale
Though its been ‘Solved‘ then, its different now….
He can no longer run to the sink, everytime he sneezes, like he used to when he was in Kindergarten. The sink was INSIDE the classroom.
My boy has an issue whenever he wipes his nose with tissue paper. He wipes it across his face!!! Mucus is like rouge across the cheeks! *faint*
I have corrected. I have demonstrated. I have held his hand and guided him the ‘right’ way of wiping (for ONE year) but he still does it ‘his‘ way! *faint*
Other then making himself untidy, he sneezes MORE! *eyes rolled*
Only when he washes his nose, does he truly stops sneezing.
The toilet is far from his Primary ONE classroom. It is just unimaginable, if he had to keep running in and out of the classroom just to get his nose washed.
*Deep Sigh*
My Worries are truly Like NONE Other…..Hhmmm…
December 30th, 2009 at 12:22 am
dun worry too much, dear..they will survive..usually the buddy will hlp them to buy food for the 1st 2 days till they are confident enough to get their own.
December 30th, 2009 at 12:40 am
blessed mom,
ok… I trust you…
*hugs*
December 30th, 2009 at 8:43 am
let us worry together about our kids in this coming monday :p
.-= ling´s last undefined ..(Enjoy 10 returned posts for Christmas) =-.
December 30th, 2009 at 9:49 am
This too shall pass… he’s going to do fine.
Happy New Year!
After Big School passes you will have something new to worry about. If it’s not one thing it’s another! Try to relax.
.-= Nana Connie´s last blog ..Christmas Magic =-.
December 30th, 2009 at 10:47 am
There’s always something to worry about with our kids. Hang in there, I’m sure he will do fine.
.-= Alison´s last blog ..A Very Merry Christmas =-.
December 30th, 2009 at 3:16 pm
ya..this coming monday is vai’s first day of school … I plan to just see how things go (am expecting screams n cries in the 1st few days). Sometimes kids surprise us with their ability to adjust in new places. All the best to your keatkeat ya … He’ll do fine, i’m sure:..
Happy new year, btw!! :)
December 30th, 2009 at 3:39 pm
U steady! Whahahaha! ;)
December 30th, 2009 at 4:30 pm
I’m sure he will be able to manage and your worries are unfounded :)
December 30th, 2009 at 6:14 pm
Somehow, it is in a parent’s system to worry about their child, no matter which stage they’re in. :)
But don’t worry too much, he will adjust just fine. There should be buddies assigned to the P1s and the teachers will also look after them, esp in the beginning.
All the best! :)
December 30th, 2009 at 8:38 pm
Does wet tissue help? Or will it aggravate his nose further? All the best to US “this coming Mon”!
December 30th, 2009 at 9:10 pm
slavemom,
TRIED!
He said the smell makes him sneeze more.
But I gave him Fragrance Free!!!
Yet he still say there’s smell.
*pout*
December 30th, 2009 at 11:47 pm
Oh dear.. i wish i can give some good advice.. unfortunately.. i have no experience in handling this kind of matter…but i have confident that you can go through this with Keatkeat like you always have :)
Merry Christmas and happy new year to you and family!