Love Can Change A Man
Child, Parenting, Preschool, School-study March 6th, 2009Title seems unfit for this blog? Shhh…. hear me…
Under Allan’s teaching, this was Keatkeat’s standard. Can you see how (almost) identical every single word is?
For the benefit of my non-Chinese friends, this is pronounced as ‘Shui‘, meaning ‘water‘. (not tap, pictures can be misleading sometimes)
This was written LAST YEAR. Allan was still the Mandarin Teacher. This was written with lots of yelling, banging of tables, erasing and tears from the little boy.
Yet the ‘sourish’ question in my heart now is, “Did I do the right thing afterall?” Allan’s way of teaching can push my boy to perfection. Mind you, this was written before he had his 5th birthday last year. Meaning, he was only 4!!!
With Keatkeat’s under-developed motor skills and yet able to present such handwriting is just magical to me.
My throat is still sore like crazy and I’m already running out of lozenges. The antibiotics doesn’t seem to help much too. Because Keatkeat was absent from school for 2 days, he brought home school work.
Both were Mandarin worksheets. I’m supposed to rest my throat. Talk less. Speak only on critical moments. Yet because of what happened on FIERY 18th February, I had to coach Keatkeat through it.
Keatkeat, as usual, couldn’t concentrate, couldn’t sit still…. Its just too straining for my throat to repeat countless “Sit down. Pick up the pencil. Look here. Are you Listening? Please Pay Attention!”
Allan saw me, came over and said, “Let me teach.”
I ignored, fearing what would come.
He looked at me in the eyes and repeated, “Let me teach him. You need to rest your throat.”
A strong message came through his eyes, “I’m NOT going to lose my temper on him…” though nothing was spoken.
The pain in my throat was as if I’ve swallowed blades for lunch. *Ouch* I gave up. I gave in.
Indeed he didn’t lose his temper. Indeed, I didn’t misread the words transpired through that look. Yet, this was the result.
Can you see how big the difference is from ‘Shui’?!
I am perfectly happy with the writing of “Hai Pa” (meaning Afraid). But this would NEVER had BEEN PERMITTED in the past. To Allan, these are HORRIBLE, Un-Presentable, Ugly, even Outrageous (some times)
Because of his love for me, Allan lowered down his expectations of Keatkeat to this. *Deep Breath* Thank you.
So what did Keatkeat draw to illustrate his Fear?
A Cockroach that is as big as his legs! I would freak out too!!!! *laugh*
March 7th, 2009 at 1:17 am
That’s very sweet of your husband! :o)
March 7th, 2009 at 3:49 am
oh no…thanks for sharing this…i mean the school worksheet! I am really afraid, cos there is no way for my boy to write this!!! Is this the standard for K2?
March 7th, 2009 at 5:22 am
Oh, that is wonderful that he realized he needed to relax a little. And yeah, that cockroach would freak me OUT!
March 7th, 2009 at 5:33 am
I’ve heard some goody things about this blog. Remember to balance the pics with the text tho :) but over all very nice post, keep up the good work
March 7th, 2009 at 9:13 am
Haha, so coincidental that the word was “hai pa” when his dad is teaching him *laugh*
But your hb is really sweet :)
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March 7th, 2009 at 9:25 am
dont worry, keatkeat’s chinese handwriting is much better than my daughter! he is doing very fine :)
Allan sayang you lah :) *sweet sweet*
March 7th, 2009 at 10:08 am
Wonderful!!! Glad to see some of your patience rubbing off on Allan! I am sure that it made the experience better for him and KeatKeat both!
Hope you get to feeling better fast!!!
March 7th, 2009 at 12:26 pm
4malmal,
you mean the ‘kind of words’ or the way it was written?
these are THE kind of words taught in K2 now. So tough right?!
I remember learning “Hai Pa” in Primary 2??? Definitely not in K2.
As for the skill in writing it, hmmm… it depends on individual’s motor skills I guess.
March 7th, 2009 at 10:46 pm
So thoughtful of your hb to control his temper for your sake.
I see Keat Keat’s effort in writing out the chinese words. I believe children’s fine motor skill are not so developed until they are 7-8 or so. To a certain extent, I think words like ha pai is tough to write and not really developmentally appropriate for a child in K2. I thought that this age should be writing words with less strokes.
They teach such tough words in K2. Very worrying that Singapore’s education standards is getting so high.
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March 8th, 2009 at 4:01 am
Perfection in schoolwork is not everything. It’s good that Allan’s maybe relaxing a little, also. Maybe everyone has learned something?
March 13th, 2009 at 10:53 am
His cochroach is very life like. Hahaha.
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