Well Said
Child, Handling Misbehaviour, Parenting, Toddler November 30th, 2008For most of you who have been ‘regulars’ here know what kind of person my MIL is. Whenever I talk about her, I’m never stingy on details *laugh*, but I don’t exaggerate ok!
Today when we were over there, as usual on Sundays, I witness something that made my heart feels good…. errrrmmm….even though I’m NOT supposed to…
My eldest BIL, whose family stays with her, is the ONLY one in the family who dares to shout at my MIL if he does not agree with her. And here’s the drama for today: –
Little 1 year old Weidong was playing with the sliding door that separates the kitchen from the living room. My MIL was worried that her grandson would accidentally hurt his fingers as he slides back and forth. After much scolding and warning the little cutie didn’t stop, she slapped his tiny hands. Weidong cried.
Few minutes later. When my BIL went into the kitchen, his son went back AGAIN to slide the door. This time, it wasn’t back and forth. He closed it completely, turned his head and gave a cheeky smile at all the spectators. I was waiting for a big reaction from my MIL.
Instead of another slap on his hand or scolding, my MIL laughed and clapped her hands, “You naughty boy, locked Papa in the kitchen eh?” *laugh*
My BIL slided the door opened and as he stepped out, he raised his voice at my MIL, “If I’m Weidong, I’ll be so confused! When I slide the door a moment ago, you scolded me and hit me. The next moment you are clapping and cheering. How in the world would I know if it is right to play with the door or not?!”
As usual, my cannot-be-defeated MIL started to answer with her nonsensical reasoning, “Just now he was sliding it back and forth. Now he didn’t, he just close it….”
Without giving her a chance to finish, my BIL snapped, “Aiya, you just don’t want to lose, just don’t want to admit that your actions are wrong. To Weidong, be it sliding the door back and forth or just close it, its the same! He still has his hands on the door!”
MIL felt she was embarrassed infront of the whole family repeated her case again, but my BIL just walked back into the bedroom without a word, because he knows her too well. She just doesn’t want to admit that she is wrong. Since her target was not interested in the argument, she turned to the forever-harmless FIL and started her long speech. As usual, FIL didn’t say a word, just sat there and listen to all her ramblings…. *laugh*
I’m happy because I wanted to say that too! But it wouldn’t make much impact as compared to my BIL, ‘cos he is talking about his son, whereas Weidong is just my nephew…. *laugh* I’m evil in this sense…. Not that I like to see my MIL being yelled at, but its always entertaining to see her and my BIL, the 2 most temperamental beings in the family having a drama like this. *laugh*
December 1st, 2008 at 12:10 am
ya man, it’s so confusing for a child to understand what’s right and wrong, when he does the same intention – playing with sliding door.
at least there’s ONE who dares to argue with your mil! hehe.
December 1st, 2008 at 10:04 am
Ling is right :) At least there’s someone who dare to talks back…
December 1st, 2008 at 11:18 am
Heheheheh…you must be giggling at one corner when the drama took place isn’t it?? You naughty you..:P
December 1st, 2008 at 4:54 pm
your FIL very patient ya! :-) but what your BIL said is true, the kid would not know which is right and which is wrong…
December 1st, 2008 at 7:11 pm
Your parents-in-law sounds like mine. And there are lots of drama too. Better be smart by just keeping quiet and enjoying the show.
December 2nd, 2008 at 12:43 am
Sounds like some drama all right!
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December 2nd, 2008 at 1:43 am
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December 2nd, 2008 at 1:49 am
I have a few family members I would like to put in their place.
December 2nd, 2008 at 10:06 am
Kids tend to love playing with doors huh? My boy also likes to play with our bedroom door… *sigh*
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December 3rd, 2008 at 5:36 am
I tell my son– make sure you know what you’re marrying into! As long as you and your children are not the targets of a grouchy MIL, it’s all fun to watch.
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December 3rd, 2008 at 9:28 am
Confusing for sure. I’d be afraid to do anything for fear of being yelled at one minute, reprimanded the next.
December 3rd, 2008 at 12:19 pm
*chuckle*
December 3rd, 2008 at 12:23 pm
I totally understand where you are coming from.
Hai….not evil at all, not evil at all….
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December 4th, 2008 at 1:56 am
LOL!Just AWESOME!!!!!
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December 4th, 2008 at 7:48 am
hmmm, I just wondering y my comment yesterday never show up?!
December 11th, 2008 at 6:06 pm
hee..agree with your BIL..and understand your feeling too.
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