How To Teach Chinese when Your Child has no interest in it?
School-study September 13th, 2011
If you look back at my ‘old’ blog posts on the topic of teaching Chinese, my focus has always been creating an interest in the subject in my boys. Frankly, it is difficult to build an interest in something on someone else, when you, yourself is not interested in! *sigh*
Chinese is my weakest subject, has always been. Well, I used to blame it on my Parents because none of them spoke to me in Chinese. After I became a parent, I took the blame away from them and acknowledged that it was my bad mentality towards the language which resulted in my bad grades.
One needs to ‘Speak More, Write More, Read More’, if you want to master the language, or simply ‘Survive‘ it.
Then again, what do you do, when your child refused to speak in Chinese? Hates writing those Chinese character strokes? Take hours just to finish reading a short Chinese story?
Well, its a battle I have to go through with Keatkeat every single day. Yes, just Keatkeat. Binbin loves Chinese. Sad to say, words which the Kindergarten 2 child knows, his Primary 2 older brother does not or have forgotten.
Which is why I say, it voice down to the attitude of the child. The way I teach the both of them are the same, but why does one excel and the other struggles? ~ Interest.
Before I reveal my latest trick used on Keatkeat, please allow me to vent a little here by sharing what it is like to get Keatkeat to complete a Chinese homework from school:~
‘Mind Blocked’ is what I have to deal with every time we sit down for Chinese lesson at home.
For example, the words ‘Small Fish’, he would keep pronouncing these two words as ‘Small Rain’. When we separate ‘Small’ from ‘Fish’, he is able to pronounce individual words correctly. But when we put them back together, he will say ‘Small Rain’ again.
Doing motion without knowing what he is doing is another big hurdle for him and me to conquer.
For example, during ‘Zao-Ju’, which is sentence construction, he would ask, “Mummy, how to write ‘guo’.” I would open up his textbook, flip to a page where the word ‘guo’ can be found and suggest that he finds the word himself. Then after writing two more ‘Zao-Ju’, he asked again, “Mummy, how to write ‘guo’.” *faint*
The most annoying thing is, he is still on the same page where he WROTE the word ‘guo’! Simply raising his eyelids a little and roll his eyeballs slightly upwards, he could see the ‘guo’ which he wrote few minutes ago! As if it was not bad enough, the textbook where the word ‘guo’ can be found is still wide open! *eyes rolled*
Lets move on to reading a Chinese Story Book which does not have Hanyu Pinyin. We have began to stay away from Hanyu Pinyin because his school teacher suggested that we should, as Primary Three Chinese would not be focusing on Hanyu Pinyin at all.
Step 1: I would read the first paragraph with my index finger pointing each Chinese character as I read.
Step 2:Then I would ask him to explain what I had just read. If he misunderstood any section, I would then explain it to him in English.
Step 3: Step 1 is repeated.
Step 4: Now, its his turn to read. Whenever he cannot remember the pronounciation of any word, I would ask him to say out (without writing) the Hanyu Pinyin of that ‘difficult’ word. I would read for him again and ask him to repeat after me.
What happens next?
HE FORGETS AGAIN!!!
Yes! In just split seconds, he can just forget what he has just said! How Amazing!?
And after reading many times to him, when he finally remembers, he forgets another word which he Knew How To Pronounce Previously! *Scream*
My sis said I am really patient. Even she could not help but shook her head when she sat beside us witnessing the drama.
Throughout the reading or worksheet session, he would drop his pencil, flick his eraser, flip his ruler onto the floor. Then he will bend down, picks it up and forgets where he stopped! *Double Scream*
He will start looking for the question or the place where he has stopped and when he finally found it, ANOTHER THING DROP ON THE FLOOR! *Super Scream*
Alright enough of all these nonsense!
Ever since we tried this new approach, the above bad habits have changed for the better; but not completely though.
So what new approach?
Chinese Comprehension!
Yup!
That’s it!
Let me explain why it works. *wink*
Remember, my focus here is to let Keatkeat have interest in Chinese and correct his bad mentality towards the language.
Doing Chinese Comprehension is ‘Killing Many Birds With One Stone’:
- One passage a day. So all he sees is one page of story and one page of questions to answer. Two pages seemed really easy for him to ‘swallow’. (Pressure/Stress is lessened.)
- He will read silently on his own with a pencil in his hand, underlining words which are alien to him. (Cultivating Good Reading Habits)
- After which, I will tell him the pronunciation of the underlined words. (Learning new/forgotten words)
- I will read to him. (Training his listening skills and level of attentiveness)
- Then he will read. (Reading Habit again)
- He can move on to the questions ONLY when he is able to read the whole story WITHOUT asking me, “Mummy what word is this?” (Accomplishment)
- Answering the questions. (Train him on his level of understanding and speed of finding the appropriate answer)
- Writing down the answers. (Focus on correct strokes of the Chinese Characters, Writing speed and Forming proper Chinese sentences is put to practice)
Can you see?
One stone killed so many birds!
Ever since we started doing Chinese Comprehension regularly, Keatkeat’s resistance towards the language has decreased tremendously. There are many books, which focuses on Chinese Comprehension ONLY. You can get them easily from any bookshops which sells assessment books.
Keatkeat’s Chinese has improved much, but has he reached the standard which is acceptable to his Chinese teacher? Errrmmm… Nope! More work need to be done.
Anyway, one thing for sure, he no longer detest Chinese language now. *phew* So I would say its a great leap forward. *smile*
Is your child interested in Chinese language? How do you teach your child Chinese?
September 13th, 2011 at 10:04 pm
This is wonderful!! Congratulations!!
September 15th, 2011 at 12:55 pm
My boys are not really that interested in Chinese but they do not “hate” the language.. for the younger boy we do lots of reading and handwriting books. For the elder we do an assortment but I focus more on comprehension and composition writing on top of reading.
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September 15th, 2011 at 4:56 pm
Congrats! Finally found a solution for him to like Chinese.. :)
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September 15th, 2011 at 10:55 pm
that’s great to hear… thanks for those advices :-)
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September 16th, 2011 at 8:25 am
These are such great tips. I plan to send my son to a CHinese school next time (he’s 4) and this will help but I might not be so hands-on and would probably need to get a tutor for him as both me and my hubby do not know Chinese.
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September 18th, 2011 at 12:31 am
Wow .. marvelous ! thanks for the so many sharing.. I enjoyed reading your post. I’ve picked up much over the years ! thanks lots! :)
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September 19th, 2011 at 3:26 pm
Hi! My girl is 6 yo, and she does show lack of interest in Chinese language at first, but this year onwards, she has more confidence to speak Chinese to us. You see, we speak mostly English to her and me being a BM and English educated, find it hard to teach a language that I am not so familiar with. I guess I would have to rely on tuition class as she goes into primary school in 2 years time, but for time being, we are training her to speak more CHinese, although the pronounciation not so correct but we correct her along the way.
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September 21st, 2011 at 12:57 pm
Sounds like a very useful method and effective too. Kyle is still at the beginning stages of learning chinese, does not help that I hardly speak chinese with him. Finally I got out of the inertia and started conversing with him in simple chinese, and he is slowly picking up the language, still sounds like an ‘ang moh’ speaking chinese though. But it is a good improvement from not being able to understand a single word of chinese. I also realise that getting interesting chinese children’s picture books really help, he picks up the book from the shelve by himself without prompting and I read it to him every other night. Still a no no to start on han yu pin yin…I wonder why kids need to learn han yu pin yin in primary 1 and 2, and then the system expects them to read without it in the higher grade.
September 22nd, 2011 at 5:06 pm
Great to hear that ! Wish he will continue to love this Chinese language in his life……
Btw, i was laughing reading your post….the part where you will be screaming !
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December 28th, 2011 at 11:20 am
Hi, you know, my son behave exactly the same way. For all his subjects, when he is in p1 n p2. He is going to p3 next year. I would tear either my hairs out n scream / shout/ beat him. I am guilty of that. I am not as patient as you. During the sch holiday, it is the time for him to catch up with his work n prepare for next year. Therefore, we can spent up to 5 to 8 hrs doing the 3 subjects. I know it is not good, n i wanted to reduce to 2 hours daily, but he is too slow. He take forever to do his work. N it did not help that his 2 younger brother will try to distract him. I hv been neglecting the 2 younger brothers as i am giving him most of my attention. Sometimes, i really felt like giving up …. :( …. Sorry for ranting on your blog, but when i read this, i found it so familiar.