Wake-y wake-y
Child, Health, Parenting July 23rd, 2008Last night I was blog-hopping at 1am in my sister’s room after sending my kids to dreamland. After the weekend break over at the Chalet, I’ve got lots of posts to read and lots of catching up to do with some bloggers….
But before I was through to the 2nd blog post, my 4-year-old started coughing badly. I’m used to it (more or less) already ever since he was diagnosed with bronchitis almost 2 years ago. So I ignored his cough and continued my reading…..then…
I heard whining…
I heard small quick footsteps…
I turned my head towards the sounds…
I saw a small tiny figure in yellow t-shirt dashed into the dark living room….
then “#$%&&%$^&”….the sound of vomit.
I dashed out of my sis’s room and switched on the lights to see where is my little Keatkeat…
He was standing just next to the dustbin. But he couldn’t find it in the darkness and the vomits were all over the floor. He was still coughing hard when I move towards him.
I was so proud of him. He did it! Finally! He did it! He no longer lay lying on his mattress and cough till he vomits. He knows himself so well now.
He knows he’s gonna vomit, so he ran out to look for the dustbin, he knows the trouble that dear Papa and Mommy got to go through in the washing his mattress whenever he vomited on it due to extreme coughing; he understands, he loves his new mattress too much to hurt it like the way he did to his previous one….
I stepped on the vomit (I didn’t care), I knelt (prefer to kneel than to squat) there holding the dustbin just below his chin to signal him that he can go ahead and throw up whatever till he feels it was enough.
I kept saying, “I am so proud of you…Good boy, you didn’t vomit on your bed…I am so proud of you…”
I went on and on till he coughed onto my face once, that’s when I changed my sentence to, “Please cough and vomit into the dustbin and not on my face!” He listened and he followed my instructions. That’s when I carried on with the encouraging words.
It’s really difficult for a kid to be asleep and yet in the nick of time, be able to react so fast, so well, so clear-minded, I am truly proud of my boy’s reaction last night. With so much commotion, my hubby’s sleep was disrupted too. He woke up to help to clean up my boy, changed him and gave him a cup of warm water, while I mopped the floor….and because of the sudden wake-up call, my hubby couldn’t get back to sleep till 5am!
My boy was alright after the throw-up, its usual, we are so used to it, he is so used to it. After a 5min rest, he said, “Good Night Papa. Good Night Mommy.” And off he went to his clean mattress, hugged his 2 bolsters and fell asleep in less than 10mins on his own.
Sometimes Keatkeat displays his level of maturity in areas that we least expect, he is always giving us surprises with his growing intelligence in more areas than one.
I remember melting under the hot sun on Monday and then I am cold like ice yesterday and today. With the unpredictable weather these days, Keatkeat is coughing harder than usual, he is showing signs that his bronchitis may be coming over for a visit again…let’s hope he sleeps well tonight. *Sweet Dreams*
Its so easy to complain when the kid did it wrong…but how often do parents say “good job” when it was done the right way….I don’t see many parents around me who do that…but several does it among my blog friends…*smile*



July 24th, 2008 at 12:03 am
What a sensible boy!!! u did a good job too, mama! :)
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July 24th, 2008 at 1:04 am
Awww.. poor KeatKeat. My kids are having cough spells at the moment too. My boy does vomit at times but not much. Anyways, KeatKeat did amazing! Children can surprise you with the way they think. But mostly all kids don’t want to disappoint or get disapproving looks from their parents. So I’m sure Keat Keat was trying hard (even in his sleep) to vomit properly.
You did great too, Angeline! :)
Hope Keat Keat gets well soon ya and that his bronchitis doesn’t return!
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July 24th, 2008 at 8:18 am
Angeline, you have taught him well and he remembers it :) Well done KeatKeat!
But how about his cough? No medicine works for him? How about chinese medecine? I heard sometimes it works better…. Hope KeatKeat will recovers fully from it.
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July 24th, 2008 at 8:57 am
LZmommy,
thank you for your concern. There is no medicine to CURE his Bronchitis. Once you have it, you have it. Many things trigger it and for Keatkeat, sudden hot and cold temperature, runny nose, dust and any kind of ‘unclean’ air will get his Bronchitis set-off.
My 70 year old uncle is a Chinese physician and is still working as one. He said there isn’t a complete cure, but there’s medicine to control the intensity of the cough (just like ‘English’ medicine which we STILL GIVE whenever he is coughing, like now…)
It’s already heart-breaking to see him cough till his face and neck go red, didn’t want to see him go through the Long-Term bitter-taste of Chinese medication. That’s why we forgo the idea….*sigh*
Ironically, when he does vomit out he feels better. So I guess its better to let him be (for now…)
July 24th, 2008 at 9:27 am
Good job boy!!!
Our kids deserve praise when did a good job. It will boose their confident. It’ll help in long run. Thats one thing that we must not forget. Don’t you think?
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July 24th, 2008 at 9:31 am
How about a GOOD JOB MOM, as well.
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July 24th, 2008 at 3:49 pm
Great Job Angeline and Keat Keat.Positive reinforcement does go a long way :)
July 24th, 2008 at 7:23 pm
Poor little guy. What a big boy to get up and go to the dust bin. My heart breaks for him that he has to go through that though…
I hope the crazy weather doesn’t upset his condition too much!
July 24th, 2008 at 9:44 pm
awww…. that’s a clever boy!
Pity him that he has to go through that… hopes the weather get better across the causeway…
July 24th, 2008 at 9:47 pm
Oh my!…Poor boy!Great achievement thou!
Hope he gets better soon my friend.
xoxoxo
July 24th, 2008 at 10:38 pm
So proud of you Keatkeat! And mommy, you did a great job there reinforcing what he did with all the encouraging words.
I didn’t know Bronchitis can’t be cure! thanks for the info.
Hope keatkeat gets well soon.
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July 24th, 2008 at 11:53 pm
Growing up, these kids. Beginning to know their bodies and yield to our expectations. And yes, it’s always so good to let them know. It encourages them all the more the next time!
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July 25th, 2008 at 9:34 am
*clever boy*
hope he gets well soon…
July 29th, 2008 at 1:40 pm
poor keat keat.. i hope he get well soon! And Bravo to you and him…you both did a great job :D
I sometimes cough till i vomit too la..sigh..and i still do feel like the phlegm is not leaving my throat/chest! Sigh….its been months now…wonder what it is..
July 29th, 2008 at 6:15 pm
I am proud of your boy too ! really rare for a boy at his age did that so well.
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September 5th, 2008 at 11:28 am
Your post makes one think! Great article. Thanks for allowing me to comment!