The Journey Has Begun
Child, Parenting, School-study June 3rd, 2009My in-laws gave us a surprise visit on last Saturday. Luckily the house was still pretty much in order. *phew*
I thought, this would make a great topic for the first page on Keatkeat’s Journal. Instead, before I could suggest it after our dinner, he walked up to me and asked: “Mommy, Can you draw a T-Rex for me?”
Whoo-Hoo! Its ALWAYS easier to get a child to follow your instructions when it was HIM who initiated the act. The level of interest, commitment and concentration is often tip-top. *wink*
But I have not bought the book for him yet and I don’t want to miss this chance because of some silly stubborn belief of ‘must start proper’. I’m a flexible Mommy. So long as the goal is attained, HOW it is done is not an issue.
What’s the difference between a book and a piece of paper anyway?! ‘Cos I can file the papers up too, infact he prefers his work to be SEEN than be kept in a book or file.
And so the Journey to a ‘New Way’ of promoting his interest in Writing, Spelling, Punctuation of both languages and training his motor skills through colouring and writing has began.
The following day, he SUGGESTED “Mommy, can you draw something for me everyday? So that I can colour and write and hang up ‘there’ so that everyone can see?!”
*Scream* That was AMAZING! He suggested that it should BECOME a Routine!!!
It seems that its really working….
He loved the special attention I gave him during this ‘Journal’ time.
He loved the control given to him to DECIDE what should be drawn.
He loved the fact that he could CHOOSE what colours to go on it.
He loved the recognition and praises he received when his masterpiece was high up for all to see.
He loved it!
Ok, let’s hope this passion stays really long…
So now that the academic is settled. I’m still finding ways to settle the behaviour and habits issue mentioned on last Thursday. *sigh*
*One step at a time Angeline, one step at a time…..*
Since 3 weeks ago, I’ve got several new commitments, so much so that my ‘already-quite-weak Time Management skills’ was put to the test. Being slapped with a 30 days School Holidays just made it worse, ‘cos kids don’t nap during holidays.
My normal-easy-to-follow schedule which allows me to complete many tasks, when they are in school and when they are napping, have gone haywire again! Plus having my invigilation duties this week and next, Woah! I’m up to my ears!
Breathing in the new assignments, exhaling the tasks, one by one, I’m trying very hard to slot EVERYTHING into my 18-20hours of awake time. Seems to be quite sufficient eh? No! ‘Cos the kids occupy 90% of that time.
It goes in this order:
Critical,
Urgent,
Important,
Necessity,
Ok,
I try,
If-I-can,
If-I-want-to,
I-can-live-without.
Yet everyday, I’m struggling between Urgent and Important and all those sub-sub-categories in between. I missed you guys. I really do. But by the time I get to Important (like VISITING YOUR Blogs), its usually passED 1am. *sigh* I’m Sorry dear friends….. from 20-30 per day to 2-3 per day to none…. I’m sorry…I’m trying…
*slap slap* Efficiency Cells! Get down to work FAST please!!!!
*Updated on 4 Jun at 2.20am. My dinosaur in Chinese is WRONG!!! *Laugh* That just prove the point why I didn’t want to be Keatkeat’s Chinese teacher right from the start. So Now I can add one more benefit from doing the Journal, it will help ME to improve MY Chinese!!! *Laugh*
June 3rd, 2009 at 12:39 pm
The T Rex was very nicely drawn :)
June 3rd, 2009 at 2:30 pm
it should be ??.
http://www.nciku.com/search/all/dinosaur
June 3rd, 2009 at 2:31 pm
oh dear..it cannot recognise chinese words and display it as ??. never mind. u see the link and will understand what i mean
June 3rd, 2009 at 7:02 pm
HAppy Holidays. :)
I’m sure you be able to occupy the boys this holiday season.
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June 3rd, 2009 at 8:16 pm
Just take it one thing at a time and everything will get done eventually. Big hugs!
June 3rd, 2009 at 8:23 pm
Yo Angeline- Yr ah boy power! Can write chinese so well!!
June 3rd, 2009 at 8:28 pm
did you teach keat keat how to write the chinese character or he knows it? You are a good artist, i don’t think i can draw a T-rex like yours :P
you take care of yourself, *gosh* sleeping only 4 to 6 hour a day, you are worst than me!
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June 3rd, 2009 at 9:00 pm
Your 2 sentences in the first line makes me smile ;) he is doing wonderful with drawing…
June 3rd, 2009 at 10:17 pm
It’s really good that he initates it, like my daughter too, whose drawings I often label as “draw & tell”. :D
she often tells me what she has drawn in spoken words and I am encouraging her to tell me in written words.
let’s jia you! :)
June 4th, 2009 at 2:14 am
Angela,
*Huge Laugh*
See???!!!
That just show how poor my Chinese is!!!
*laugh*
June 4th, 2009 at 2:17 am
Blessed Mom,
I wrote the Chinese words on another piece of paper and he copied it….
The day he knows how to write a Chinese sentence without my assistance, I’ll be popping Champagne!
June 4th, 2009 at 3:14 am
That is an awesome looking dinosaur!
June 4th, 2009 at 9:34 am
You don’t worry ’bout us. You go work on your Chinese. (KIDDING!) Glad he’s so interested in learning. That interest will carry him a long way.
June 4th, 2009 at 10:11 am
I’m worse than you. I can’t even do 1 blog a day.
June 4th, 2009 at 12:17 pm
No worries on getting to blogs! Take care of yourself. It sounds a bit overwhelming…to say the least. :) And I’m still in awe of the dinosaur drawing. You kick T-Rex’s ass! LOL
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June 4th, 2009 at 7:11 pm
hey, I am back and realised that it is the june holiday, good way to keep the kids occupied :)
June 5th, 2009 at 4:03 am
hes a proper little drawer isnt he. i liked the chinese writing even if it was wrong!!
June 5th, 2009 at 7:26 am
hey u can draw very well! and ur son colors well too! what a great pair! hee…
June 5th, 2009 at 10:48 pm
nice drawing!! but the first thing i noticed was the wrong chinese word.. sorry!! Occupational hazzard!! :D
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June 6th, 2009 at 11:30 am
Sch hol for 1 mth? Woohoo! For the kids, not the parents. LOL
The journal is a great idea! He’s really interested n excited abt it. Hey, u’re really good at drawing. ;) I think I’m gonna steal this idea. A good way to improve XY’s Chn language. But she’ll hv to draw herself. Her drawing’s much better than mine. :p
June 7th, 2009 at 3:39 am
got an award for you mate x
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June 7th, 2009 at 12:05 pm
it’s always good to have goals etc….but sometimes there does need to be flexibility…..so if something go according to plan..acknowledge and note to yourself that next tme maybe things will be on task….you remember to take time for you!!!
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June 8th, 2009 at 1:37 pm
Easier indeed when the child decides….less push, more pull from them! Hope it works out really well for a looooonnnnngggggg time!
June 9th, 2009 at 4:24 pm
wow! that is a very good dwg of a t-rex!
great great idea to “educate” the kids!
June 9th, 2009 at 8:41 pm
Just drop by, Angeline
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June 13th, 2009 at 8:58 am
You are one of the most creative mummies I have ever met. Your blog and you really have personality. I think your kids will do very well with such a mum.
I am a senior,stumbling along, in the blogging world and can’t help being amazed at your story and frankness. Certainly, not a typical Singaporean.
It would be great to meet you in person. You get my most interesting blog award.