Dengue Fever
Child, Health, Parenting September 17th, 2008Like I’ve said yesterday, the moment I stepped into my parents-in-law’s place, my little girl, ZY greeted me with an unpleasant news. Remember? I’m her Sunday-mommy, so she sticks to me the moment I’m there…
“Shenshen (Young Auntie), I am very sick. Got fever, got pain everywhere, got cough, got running nose, got vomit and got mosquitoe bites.” ZY reported.
My eldest niece, CH, who is always eager to help, summarized it for me, “Aiya, she got DENGUE FEVER lah!”
My eyes widened. My heart sank. I remember the advertisement (sorry couldn’t find it in YouTube to show all of you) about how the mother felt so remorse over her carelessness in the maintenance of the house, which resulted in the breeding of the Aedes mosquitoes and eventually caused her son to be in pain, lying on the hospital bed because of Dengue Fever.
My heart sank because my beloved little girl is so sick. Then anger came in. I remembered Dengue Fever is contagious (hold your breath, I know what you wanna say..).
I turned to my 2nd sis-in-law, “Isn’t it contagious?!” My 2nd SIL nodded and said, “I got to know of it only after I’ve reached too..”
In my head I was going, “How come when the kids over here had chicken pox in the past, my MIL would forbid us to come. Now, is it because its Mid-Autumn Festival, that’s why she was willing to risk everyone else’s lives so that we will not miss this occasion?”
I was confused. Angry. Sad and most of all Afraid that my two boys will have dengue fever too. Well, one thing I know for sure is – Dengue Fever CAN KILL!
Throughout the rest of the day, I was not very happy, but the kids loved every moment of it, so I guess I’m happy too, in some sense.
Just before dinner, ZY woke up from her cat nap screaming and crying!
My eldest BIL, her dad, yelled at her, “Crazy ah! Why do you need to scream and cry? Just let us know what’s the problem!” That’s how all his 3 children behave whenever they are sick, especially if there is a fever. They will scream and cry. Even though ZY is already 7years old, it seems that this haven’t changed.
I’m really lucky to have kids who doesn’t even throw a tantrum when they are sick. All they do is just cling on to me like a Koala Bear.
I was sitting just beside her, watching her sleep on the sofa when it happened. Somehow, I’ve got a feeling she wanted to vomit and she confirmed my guess.
I brought her to the dustbin nearby but she refused. She wanted the toliet, so I brought her to the kitchen and that’s when my MIL took over.
MIL: “Stop crying. You are fine. Papa is angry already. Stop crying.”
ZY tried to vomit but nothing came out. Then she started to hammer her chest real hard. Keatkeat asked, “Jiejie is like King Kong..” Oh Kids, what can I say other than bring him away!
She started to throw a tantrum again. MIL instructed everyone to leave the kitchen and get out of her sight, she thinks that everyone’s presence might be pressurizing her and so everyone obeyed.
20mins after medication, ZY was back to normal, that’s why you could see her standing at the back of the photo (the one where the kids stood infront of the ‘lantern rack’).
When I got home, I searched through the internet just to confirm my fear……was a mistake! *laugh* Dengue Fever is NOT CONTAGIOUS!!! Meaning, it will NOT be transmitted from one person to another. *Phew* Luckily, I didn’t confront my MIL and make things turn ugly on such a wonderful day. *Phew*
September 18th, 2008 at 12:48 am
Oh the poor little girl! I hope she gets well soon! I’m glad it’s not contagious and you guys are all safe. :o)
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September 18th, 2008 at 1:13 am
Thank God it is not contagious. I am praying for your little niece. I hope she is all better very soon. When my Kenz is sick I never tell her NOT to cry. Crying is good, it releases emotional and physical pain. I guess different cultures regard this differently. Come to think of it when I am sick I cry, whine, carry on….. like a baby.
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September 18th, 2008 at 2:31 am
Poor thing!Dengue fever is dangerous and requires lots of attention.And nope,not contagious at all!It’s all about keeping the mosquitoes away.
Hope she gets well asap!
xoxo
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September 18th, 2008 at 9:30 am
has ZY recovered already? poor little girl ..
September 18th, 2008 at 9:34 am
Correct me if I’m wrong..though itt’s not directly contagious thro personal contact but I thought if the mosquito that sucked the blood of the victim lands on another the blood will be transmitted to the new victim and that person will get DENGGUE as well? Mayb my prception is wrong all these while. He He.
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September 18th, 2008 at 12:52 pm
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September 18th, 2008 at 4:20 pm
poor darling. hopes she gets well soon…
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September 18th, 2008 at 4:32 pm
Ling,
just called my MIL…
they did another blood test on Tuesday and found no (more) trace of the ‘virus’. Though the MC is until today, my MIL still send ZY to school this afternoon.
She gave ZY a dose of ‘all the medication’ before she went school.
So I guess everything is fine now…but I’ll still be calling her to make sure…
September 18th, 2008 at 4:40 pm
Physiomom,
hmmm…that I’m not too sure…maybe you could click on the link provided above in my post…maybe they did mention it, but I was too focus on finding the word ‘Contagious!’ *laugh*
September 18th, 2008 at 4:59 pm
Aww… poor girl! Hope she’s getting better now.
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September 18th, 2008 at 7:38 pm
Dengue Fever sounds contagious. That’d be enough for me to stay away.
It’s funny how we draw lines sometimes and not others, about staying away from illness. Glad in the end it wasn’t catchy. Glad in the end some fun was had. Glad too that you never confronted your MIL. She’s a wild one.
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September 18th, 2008 at 9:35 pm
Poor little girl but I don’t blame you for having worried all day, I would’ve worried too.Your boys sound so amazing with the way they deal sith things. You are a wonderful mother!
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September 18th, 2008 at 9:43 pm
I feel sad for ZY, my husband would never scream at Dot if he is being cranky when not feeling well, instead, the two of us would shower him with endless flow of love and attention..
And i am glad that ZY has such a loving and caring Shen Shen to offer her so much comfort and care when she is sick.
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September 18th, 2008 at 10:58 pm
Sounds like an awful illness but what a relief that it is not contagious!
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September 18th, 2008 at 11:44 pm
no dengue fever is not contagious at all…
hope ZY is better liao…now the task is to keep the mossies away…
September 19th, 2008 at 1:33 am
I am very sure its not contagious as I got it too. Its the fever which caused ones to shivers that really made dengue such painful illness, other than that, I pretty ok though i was hospitalise for 1 week.
The caused might not be from your MIL house, she could have got biten elsewhere, so don’t be too angry.
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September 21st, 2008 at 9:37 am
Howz ZY now ??? I know it takes a lot of effort for these lil ones .. Give my tight hugs to her!
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September 21st, 2008 at 10:34 am
Suhanya,
ZY is finally ok! I’ve sent your hugs to her via express-mail. *laugh*
September 22nd, 2008 at 9:16 am
She must be feeling terrible! Hope she has recovered by now.
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