Its just different
Child, Parenting March 17th, 2009School Holiday is a time when there are less rules within the four walls.
Computer-games-is-on-Friday had changed to computer-games-is-everyday-for-an-hour.
Sleep-because-you-have-school-tomorrow had changed to sleep-because-mommy-have-no-strength-to-entertain-you-anymore.
Play-because-your-worksheets-are-done had changed to play-because-you-have-the-right-to (this week).
School Holidays SHOULD be different, shouldn’t it?
To many parents, school holidays is the BEST TIME to catch up on school work, to give extra tuition on weak subjects like maths *faint*, to learn what is to be taught when school reopens, believing that learning ahead is the key to better grades.
To me, that’s scary. But different parents have different priorities, so I’m not here to say right or wrong, there are just too many Grey areas in life which we should not waste too much time debating on.
Yesterday, we spent half the day with my PIL and my favourite niece, ZY. Now that my eldest SIL had been retrenched, what better opportunity is there than this week of no-school days to bring her children back to Malaysia to visit her parents.
ZY, who has NEVER been closed to her parents naturally stayed in Singapore and keep the old folks occupied. My MIL often say, “ZY is more like my daughter than my granddaughter.” How true! No one in the family has ever rebutted that sentence.
The trio came over to my house yesterday.
The adults spend time chatting while the kids had snap-snap and munch-munch fun under the big umbrella.
What a way to kick off the school holidays. Nice! :)
March 18th, 2009 at 12:15 am
Look like fun for them. We’re much the same, a relaxing of the rules during the holiday. Later bed time, more reading time, more tv, more outside time, more snacks, more laughter. Makes me wonder if I should just relax the rules all the time?
March 18th, 2009 at 1:53 am
I don’t know any parents who make their children study during school holidays. Maybe you’re going against a cultural trend?
We are more laid-back about the rules during holidays too. I just posted today about letting the kids watch more TV than usual.
March 18th, 2009 at 3:42 am
It is interesting to note that over here, children really play and have fun during school holiday. Parents seem to be able to take leave from work during this period to go for holiday.
Maybe only spore kids have to study during school holiday…it is quite sad and scary. I am fearing it already!
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March 18th, 2009 at 9:33 am
I’m really running out of idea how to entertain the boys. Its Amos’ 3rd birthday today. I think I will bring them to swensen… complimentary sundae for birthday boy. YAY !! :):)
March 18th, 2009 at 9:47 am
Hahaha!! I used to do that when i was young! having a group of friends and play pretend! pretend to be at the beach, pretend to be teachers and students, pretend to be a librarian etc… so fun!
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March 18th, 2009 at 10:46 am
For me, school holidays is also FUN if nothing else happens. But unfortunately, it tends to be time for Xuan to recuperate from her cough and flu and for her to pass them to Kai…*sigh*
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March 18th, 2009 at 11:35 am
oh I always love it when cousins are close and can play together…
School holiday….some people love it, some people hate it! hahaha…much like rain, you know.:)
March 18th, 2009 at 11:40 am
now it is school holidays yet my kids are still waking up at 7am everyday!! :(
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March 18th, 2009 at 2:45 pm
school holidays might be here but my P2 girl is busy with her project *faint*!
Its so fun to have kids of the same age to play with.
March 18th, 2009 at 3:25 pm
There’s a need between school and life balances, so that’s still fine.
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March 18th, 2009 at 3:44 pm
wah it’s the time of the yr again when kids are MOST looking forward to ehhh :-)
the kids really had fun playing under the big umbrella – it looks like they are at the beach side…hehehe…
March 18th, 2009 at 8:19 pm
I had always loved school holidays…
now i like Yuvan’s also.. He gets more time watching playhouse..play and learn. i will let him do what he wats but Tv not more than 1 – 1.30 hrs a day
But to my surprise he wants to do lot of stuffs..he is in compulsion to do worksheets. he is in love with doing this n that..LOL
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March 18th, 2009 at 9:28 pm
oh…it is school holidays in Singapore ;) I love the photos. cute…
March 19th, 2009 at 2:56 am
Ah!Those pics!They are awesome!Hang on!Thou it’s tough for us,they need their break!
xoxoxo
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March 20th, 2009 at 11:13 pm
I think school holiday should be for fun!!!! Love the pictures!