My Favourite Family Routine
Child, Parenting May 13th, 2008Time and time again, we go through every day or week, doing the same things, seeing the same people over and over again…we drag our heavy feet as if they weighed a thousand tons to do what we were already so used to doing…what am I saying? Routine…
Surprisingly, though many complain they are sick of what they do every day or every week, they are actually quite comfortable doing the mundane stuff, for the simple fact that it is predictable. Seriously, how many of you like New Stuff happening every single day? To get you on your feet and pump your energy up to the highest level the moment you open your eyes? And stay at cloud nine every second of the day? I guess I don’t see many hands raised.
So, many of us like to go through simple living. We are not too much like popcorns, popping at every little thing that we see, hear or feel. In fact, such things throw us off-balance, though so often we complain our lives are too boring, yet, deep inside us, we are not prepared to handle such intense excitement.
I am definitely the ambassador of the ‘many of us’ I mentioned above. Though uninteresting as it may seem sometimes, I still love routines. But again, if you have a 3 year old and 4 year old in your house 24/7, you are definitely in the training ground for extraordinary living. So I’m lucky, I have additional spice added to my plain and unattractive plate of rice to keep me away from robotic lifestyle.
Every Sunday, I get to spice up my life to the fullest when I go over to my mother-in-law’s place where all her children and grandchildren meet. It is family day for us. With the 2 old folks, 3 pairs of parents and 6 bubbly kids running around, you can hardly rest and can be quite chaotic at times.
Once a week, I am the nanny of 6 children. My father-in-law would be playing Chinese Chess with my 2nd brother-in-law; My 2nd sister-in-law would chat with me if the kids agree to spare me a few minutes, otherwise she would be watching Taiwanese dramas; My mother-in-law would be in the kitchen the whole time, whipping up yummies after yummies; My eldest brother-in-law is a sleeping-king, he sleeps right after lunch and wakes up at 6.45pm to fetch his wife back from the factory, where she works.
So with my mind constantly thinking at high speed, to entertain kids from age 1 to 7; and with my mouth always moving, be it talking, singing, laughing or eating: and with my hands carrying one kid after another, it is not difficult to imagine how impossible it is to rest on every Sunday and even easier to picture my exhausted look, slouching in the van, with my husband behind the wheels and my boys still high-spirited at the backseats, when we leave at 9pm.
Though completely burnt-out mentally and physically, with a stomach full of goodies, I still treasure every moment at my in-law’s place. I know, I am confident that when the day comes, the 60 plus, white haired, old woman and man, are no longer around, this routine will stop and maybe the closeness we have now between the rest of us, will be gone too….its sad but this day will come.
Till that day arrive, while they are still alive and kicking, I will treasure every Sunday as if it’s the last.
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May 13th, 2008 at 11:40 am
What a beautiful family picture!
May 13th, 2008 at 11:58 am
what a great routine/tradition. you could pick it up yourself, eventually
May 13th, 2008 at 6:51 pm
I love this writeup of yours :) Keep it coming!
How routine it may be, with kids around, it seems so extaordinary. :) Yeah.. I agree… I was just thinking if my MIL is not around, will we meet up as often as now? I hope we will…
May 13th, 2008 at 8:27 pm
We have the same routine every Sunday. We go to visit my father in law. By Wednesday the kids are asking if we are going to see Grampie on Sunday, so they look forward to the routine as well.
May 13th, 2008 at 8:37 pm
First, let me thank you for visiting my blog and leaving a comment….Yeah I know I have to accept things…which I will…but as you say…at least I can vent on my blog….as for your post…what a wonderful tradition and great way to spend some family time…..you never know…your tradition may hang in there even after MIL and FIL are gone…why….because you have made it a tradition……enjoyed reading your blog….hope to stop by again….cheers
May 14th, 2008 at 12:54 am
very nice family pic there…hats off to u for able to nanny 6 kids on a supposely “off-day”..i’m already quite “punture” with 3…gagaga
we used to gather every sunday too when my hubby’s grandparents were around..I remembered the house was always filled with laughters from little kids to adults but when they passed on, the meetings become lesser and lesser till now we hardly meet with the cousins/aunties…
May 14th, 2008 at 2:06 am
What luckiness to have such a big and close family. Every week? That might drive me around the bend but mostly, I like rice: the simple, the tantalizing…
May 14th, 2008 at 2:25 am
Your Sundays sound full in a multitude of ways. Kudos to you, though, for gleaning appreciation and love from the chaos.
May 14th, 2008 at 2:26 am
How beautiful! You are so lucky to have your family so close together. I don’t have either my mom or mom in law live in the same country as us. I do have one sister though and that helps a lot but unfortunetly her children are much much older than mine so there is a generation gap. but at least it is something. My hubby and 2 very speacial children are very close and we have each other and that’s the most important thing.
May 14th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
sorry for getting all so emotional again…
as i read your last sentence “I will treasure every Sunday as if it’s the last.”, my tears dropped
…i wish i had done that when i was over at my mum’s when she was still around.
and wow! 6 kids, how did you do it? seriously, i really really take my hat off you! one is enough to drive me crazy at times, let alone 6!