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Child, Parenting March 1st, 2009Its been a month since we last went over to my Parent-in-law’s house. We wanted to be very sure that Keatkeat is ok before we go over on Sundays again. No kids from ‘that side‘ have Chicken Pox yet.
Today, we welcome back my eldest niece, CH. Because of the change in her swimming lessons, they chose to visit my PIL on Saturdays instead of the usual Sundays.
However, my MIL wasn’t happy over the months, ‘cos she needed to prepare ‘heavenly dishes’ twice a week, instead of once a week.
So she requested that my 2nd BIL and SIL return to the usual Sunday routine. Hence today, they came over for lunch, disappeared for about 3-4hours for CH’s swimming lessons, then head back here again for dinner.
For my boys, even the blind can tell that they enjoyed today more than any Sundays in the past. They missed their cousins. They played hard, laughed hard and gobbled down the food fast too! Guess they missed my MIL’s cooking as much as I did. *laugh*
For myself, it was wonderful. I had a long chat with my FIL, learning about his childhood; why he left China with his family when he was only 8years old. The story was rather tragic and horrifying (some part of it).
Suddenly he popped out the question, “Where were you from? Your ancestor. Your origin. You are a Chinese, so you are definitely from China, but which part of China?”
I DON’T KNOW!!! My dad could never have known, ‘cos my grandpa died when he was a toddler/preschooler. My grandma was a nonya. So I guess there was no way I’ll ever know, where EXACTLY did my blood flow from…?
Do you know where are you from, originally?
March 2nd, 2009 at 6:49 am
Glad you got to get back to your Sunday’s with family! I always enjoy when we get to hang out with family!
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March 2nd, 2009 at 7:43 am
I think it would be the Teochew part of china.. Fujian province + we are also Nonya and the extended family used to be from Ipoh, there is also native Saki from Sawarak so it would be an international blend.
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March 2nd, 2009 at 9:37 am
soul searching!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
March 2nd, 2009 at 11:24 am
Glad you and the kids had fun!
I thought the old folks would be happy to cook and make everyone happy to come over? hmmm….
I don’t know where my grandparents were from either!
March 2nd, 2009 at 12:18 pm
Hey..My maternal grandmother was a nonya too..
My paternal grandparents, I’m not so sure..maybe from Fujian coz we are Hokkiens?
March 2nd, 2009 at 3:33 pm
My, that is a deep question from an 8 year old. haha. I don’t know where we are from either. I suppose a search with surnames would help?
March 2nd, 2009 at 9:03 pm
I managed to ask my grandpa last time …Luckily I did! We are from ‘Fu Chou’, south of China. Glad that all of you had a great weekend :)
March 3rd, 2009 at 4:53 am
wow ur children globbled down the food fast having no slow eating problem? so tt means they preferred ur MIL’s cooking than ur cooking?
March 3rd, 2009 at 8:22 am
bb,
Slight correction there, they prefer MIL cooking to anyone else’s cooking. *laugh*
I hardly cook. *ashamed*
March 3rd, 2009 at 10:26 am
More or less, Ireland, France, Scotland. Over there, is how I feel it. Canada is too much a part of who I am for the rest to matter.
I’m glad your boys got to run it out with their cousins again. I can imagine their happiness.
March 3rd, 2009 at 1:41 pm
I also not know much about my ancestor ;) I am chinese who born in Jakarta, that’s all what I know hi hi hi
March 3rd, 2009 at 8:34 pm
i have always been fasinated by the family tree sort of thing. i would like to know who my great great grandparents were etc, and go really far back!
glad the kids had a nice time
March 6th, 2009 at 1:01 am
I guess u could trace it by what sort of dialect spoken, and use of certain words. :)
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