fun is gone…tireness continues
Child, Health, Parenting, Toddler April 1st, 2008My previous post “Happy Birthday Binbin”ended with a low note….Binbin ended his birthday celebration way too high….38.1 Degrees Celsius.
His temperature did not come alone…diarrhoea came along with it. Throughout yesterday, I was sponging my little 3-year-old every other hour non-stop till wee hours into this morning. The faeces looked familiar the moment I saw blood.
It was exactly the same as Keatkeat’s, when my 1st born was 1+.
We were 1st time parents then, so nervous, so worried, rushed him down to KK hospital and stayed there for 5 full days WITHOUT ANY MEDICATION. Reason? The doctors at KK hospital said the diarrhoea was due to bacteria. The child needed to fight the bacteria through his own immune system. So Keatkeat was shitting his little life away for full 5 days. I thought that was CRAP then, but now, I chose to accept it.
I did not intend to bring Binbin to see doctor at all but yesterday got a big turn for the worse. His temperature shot up to 40 Degrees Celsius. I got worried as I looked at his red-glowing face. Even when he was burning hot at 39, he was still playing like a mad dog. But the moment the thermometer hit 40, he became listless. That was at 5 am in the morning.
I kept sponging him even more till it drop to 38.5 Degrees Celsius, before I was willing to rest. By then, it was 6am. Can you imagine how heavy my eye-bags are now?
Slept for an hour, up at 7am to clear Binbin’s 14th diaper full of shit, brown and red. Its unlike the usual watery diarrhoea, its the jelly type, which makes me even more confident that his situation is the same as Keatkeat’s when Keatkeat was admitted to the hospital 3 years ago.
That gave me complete relief, ‘cos I know that my Binbin who is very different from MOST kids will definitely get well by today. (if you have read my post Dedicated to my Son – Binbin, you would know why I am so confident)
Anyhow, I still brought him to my family doctor after I fetch Keatkeat from school at 11.50am. By then, Binbin’s fever dropped to 37.1 degrees celsius. Ever since the shit at 7am, there wasn’t anymore till 10mins ago, which was 8 hours interval. That’s a super improvement.
The only thing I had to watch out was the amount of blood. Just make sure its not increasing. Some parents who hear this may think that I am risking my child’s life by not bringing him to see the doctor yesterday when his temperature was high and started to have diarrhoea.
But when you have ENOUGH experience from a very weak 1st born, you naturally become a semi-doctor for the 2nd child. It’s true. It’s how much you understand your child’s immune system, it’s how much you understand the seriousness of the sickness that will help you make the right choice. This clear understanding helps you to save alot of trouble queueing up at the hospital at wee hours in the morning and definitely save you alot of money.
When you have a child like my Binbin, who hardly fall sick in a year, or even when he does, all he needs is an hour in the playground, no medication needed in order to get well; you will completely understand why I did what I did.
That’s why I say he is a miracle kid. Go on, read (if you haven’t) that post dedicated to him, I bet you’ll love this child as much as I do.
But what a sick April Fool’s day joke, ya?
April 1st, 2008 at 9:36 pm
AAAh, poor BinBin. I hope that he is fully recovered by now and that you have got some sleep back. I completly understand, with the second child, one tends to be calmer and knows what to do. Well Done!
April 1st, 2008 at 9:58 pm
Oh, poor Binbin. That picture of him so tiny and sad in his little white undershirt – just want to hug him. Hope he’s better soon! And yes, we kinda do become authorities on our own children. A tale of caution though, years ago when our daughter was an infant she was having outrageous fevers and we brought her into the emergency room. Turned out to be ear infections. The doctor told us to control her fever we should alternate ibu. and acet. and lessen the required hours to be given. We did this many times over the course of her few short years when her fever was seriously high. She’s 7 now. This past winter I’ve learned that we are lucky she didn’t O.D. when we did this. Never really thought about it at the time because it was doctor’s orders. Sometimes moms just know better.
And about my daughter and her sign, “Pay $10,000,000 cash!” Yesterday I leaned over her while she curled up after school with her MP3 player on (god help me) and I gave her a hug. She very loudly said, “Ah ya, mom, remember that old sign? It still applies!” And she put out her hand. When I gave her imaginary cash, she said, “Un, un, the real stuff, please.” I just gave her another hug…thanks for reading me…
April 2nd, 2008 at 12:38 am
oh dear.. poor thing.. but after reading on your confidence on Binbin getting better soon, I do feel much better. Yes, I agreed, mummies do sometimes have that intuition and experience on their kids.. here’s wishing him get well soon..
April 2nd, 2008 at 3:48 pm
Do get well soon, binbin. And, do drink more water.
April 4th, 2008 at 3:29 pm
Hi came over here from KM’s blog. Yes, i do agree with u that with all the experience from our older kids, we became semi-doctor ourselves too. Hope he is well by now.